Head!

Hello you nasties! 

While FabEs is talking all about spice, I’ve decided to talk about something quite basic, well at least to the gays. Head, blow jobs, fellatio and cunnilingus (if you want to use their proper names.) The act of using your mouth on the genitals for sexual stimulation. The thing most guys have been thinking about since they were in school. I have been thinking, what kind of man enjoys it and why so much of an obsession to get it 

When it comes to myself and when I think about giving or getting head, I automatically think about all the songs I’ve heard where they talk about it (I get head like a blow dryer 23). My personal experience, as black male (normally mis understood) there is this idea I need to get sucked. That BBC needs to be sucked all that, I’ve heard it all. The amount of offers I’ve had in the past, have been numerous. While the offers I have given have also been numerous. I also think about the rumours I heard about the girls at school doing it for money, or other favours. The thing is, no matter how much I didn’t like to think about men, I never once thought about trying one of these offers. 

As I am not a heterosexual, I can’t pretend to understand what goes on in their bedrooms, cars and skips. All I know for a lot of them blowjobs are pretty much off the table. The women I’ve known, many have said not to enjoy it. Which I understand. When you break it down, you are putting someone’s penis in your mouth. The thing that lets pee come out. I get it. Not to mention that straight boys don’t wash. It would put me off too, but some of your nasties! The only woman I know who enjoy sucking cock is Samantha, and she’s a fictional character. I can be convinced that some corn-stars enjoy doing it, because I have seen how some of them do it, and if spitting and stroking a cook is giving good head, I’ve been doing it wrong for years! 

Of course, this is a two sided story. I do have heterosexual friends, that I may or may not have tried to blow (only one successfully), they claim to not enjoy it. At the time I wasn't sure if that was true or not. However, now I am more likely to believe them. Just time and growth. At least one said they prefer to give head. Which I’m all here for, ladies need head too. I know this for a fact, it is an area not a lot of guys like to do, for very selfish reasons. Some say it should be fair. I say, ladies get that head everyday, women on top (literally). 

Let me get back to the idea of men that don’t like it. Of course with my very large number of homosexual acquaintances, I was able to get their input on the subject. To say the reactions were mixed. Many said they enjoyed sucking cock, which sure wasn’t surprising. The surprise came with the number of responses that said they didn’t like it, because they take too long to cum from it. While some said, they just didn't enjoy it as much. While a friend surprised me saying they very much enjoyed getting blown. Which was a surprise to me, as they seem the kind not to go out looking for it. 

That’s what they said, but I did take it further. When asked if they enjoyed watching people getting head, many said they did. Which once again isn’t too surprising, not everyone is into voyeurism. When asked if they could get head everyday, one said yes, no caveats Which makes sense to me, given what I know about gay men. One thing I do know. One of my friends does like it, but will only do it with a condom with people they don’t know. Which is something I understand, it still has its risks. Maybe I should have asked if people would be happy to get one with a condom. Maybe next time. 

Let's bring it back to straight guys again. A part of my mind can’t help but think, if they are getting less do they seek it out more? When I think about youth there were all kinds of people doing various acts to be popular, or get something, did these avenues dry up? It could even be more simple, their girl used to, now she doesn't, and the guys want it. Which is why they make pacts and promises, with other guys when they are drunk or high to get their dick sucked. Getting bro-jobs is not a new concept to me either. 

The amount of times I’ve heard (real or make believe) people have been sucking off fellow boys at school for a very long time. Do I know any of this to be true, no, but I am going to guess there has to be some truth to it. There’s only so many times you have so many people have similar experiences. While I know some are not just saying it to tell a horny story. Of course, a lot of these guys who have been a part of these BJ rings are married with kids and happy. While a large portion are still having these things happen on the DL. Do I think either is bad, well maybe if it's not open. All I can say is the way that some people are going, I can see this is more common than people realise.

The amount of married men on these hook up apps and sites that are just looking to get blown is sad really. I've seen countless profiles over the years (less now) that claim they just want someone to come in and suck their cock, cum and leave. Or the amount of them who are happy to go to glory holes just get one. Maybe I could wash this all away with “men being men” but I think we need to start making people take accountability for their actions. 

h the gays, apparently everyone gives the best head in the world. The boating from gay guys in places is out of this world. If I only had a quarter of their confidence when I was younger, I would have been a superstar. I don't know if the boasting is meant to be a sell, but if you're bragging you make me cum, I don't know if that’s talent, or your previous guys had premature issues. Maybe it's me, but enjoying having your dick sucked is the point, and not necessarily making someone cum in a minute. Otherwise the fun is over, isn’t it?

The only type of person that only loves getting heads and not giving it, is the top, the selfish top. Many tops don't see it as their job to give head. As it's not up someone’s butt, you don't need the additional lube do you? Sure, you’re not giving your sexual partner some pleasure is justifiable. However, putting your dick anywhere inside a man is a little homosexual. Doesn’t matter if it’s in their mouth or anus, sorry it's still gay. 

Now back to me, and what I think personally. I think that getting ahead is okay. I don’t feel it's something I have ever actively seeked out. I think I am in the minority, I like giving and getting head with others I care about (my husband mainly). I love sucking my husband's cock very much, him sucking me not so much. He will do it when he feels like it, but it’s okay. I love him so I’ll let him do it when he feels like, or when I do. Also, to those who want some tips, some flavour can make it more enjoyable. My Ann Summers Cock Lick is always at hand - there’s your spice. 

If you like getting head, good for you. If you love giving head, good for you too. I think it's something that people will continue to enjoy doing. No matter your sexual orientation, going down on someone is always going to be a good thing. Ladies put them boys to work, and guys don’t be so selfish. While for my homos, be humble. For everyone get head, morning, noon and night!